Everything Happens For A Reason

Aug 3, 2010

For those who know me, they know that I am a firm believer that EVERYTHING happens for a reason and while it’s not always certain why that reason is, as time goes on that reason or reasons reveal themselves. For me, I’m glad that in this particular case it was sooner rather than later.

In the past few days I have decided that it was best to cut certain people out of my life after realizing that they never really gave a damn about me or the friendship that we once had. I can say with quite certainty though it is a HUGE relief because at least now I know and the fake pretenses which clearly surrounded the entire friendship to begin with can be dropped. That and that’s one less crazy I have to deal with! I get enough of those at work, thank you very much!

In other news, Kristen and I have decided to reorganize the kitchen. I’ve been wanting to do it for some time but I just couldn’t fathom doing the task alone, so I’m glad that I’ll have someone to help me with it. I’m actually pretty excited and I think along with the kitchen reorganization we can also try and paint the back wall like I’ve been wanting to do. I’m actually really excited about it and I think it will be a relief to scratch that off my list of things to do.

Next up is going to be the garage, but I don’t plan on tackling that until September when it starts to cool down because it is entirely too hot right now, so that will come in due time. I’m excited though because it’s nice to have another person with my mindset around to get things done. As much as I love Robby he’s the “I have an awesome idea” type and starts to work on it, loses motivation and stops. It’s good to have someone to kick me in the ass if/when that happens to me.

All in all, despite everything that has happened in the past few days I’m content and happy with the direction my life is headed. Having Kristen here has really helped with my sour mood of late, I am on a different path with Rochelle and honestly hope that this time around things are different, I continually get closer to Jenn and Meeka Micah Moo Moo Choo Choo and I have a group of friends who are always there for me no matter what. Friends, who I can call out when they’re being down right retarded, without issue or fear they’ll stop being my friends, and friends who understand that even I make mistakes, but I’ll always make a point to apologize when I’m in the wrong; that’s more than I can say for others and for that I am so grateful.